Monday, September 25, 2006

communication workshop iv

to understand love, to feel the love, you have to speak the love language.
everyone is different.
each of us may need a different language at different situation.
u can use your language to treat others.
the key is: u need to speak that person's language so that s/he can understand your love.

Five Love Languages:

Word of Affirmation:
some people needs encouraging words

Quality Time:
it's not "togetherness"
it's the time you PAY ATTENTION to each other

Receiving Gifts:
it's not how much the gift worth
it's your heart that costs

Act of Service:
some people needs real actions.
more practical... do sth to show me your love!

Physical Touch:
pat on shoulder
hold hands
a big hug...
of cos... be careful not to fall into temptations!

do u know which language u speak?
have u let others know your language?
or you just keep speaking what u understand and ignore your lover's language?

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

hm...I still remeber I used to hold your hand....now... mo la...
you can't hold hands anymore..
u can only hold onto the WINGS...ohohoh...